My First Love

For the first time ever I was asked for a number by someone when I was in grade 6 elementary school. At that time I was participating in an inter-district choir competition in one of the elementary schools in Purwakarta, I still remember when I took part in the competition I had just cut my hair with a trendy hairstyle. At that time I really liked my haircut, I love my new hair. Back to the choir performance, after my group performed and we were all relaxing and resting. It surprised me when suddenly there was someone who came shyly and approached me saying "Hello..what's your name? May I have the number?” I was silent for a few seconds and was surprised how brave someone approached my residence and my friends. ''HALLO" he said again the person was still waiting for my answer "my name is Noviyanti" "oh yes you can" for some reason I even gave my cellphone number at that time. So that's where I first felt attracted to boy. Unfortunately I haven't had time to ask her name again, he left immediately after getting my cell phone number.

After returning home from that memorable race, the next day at noon to be precise, suddenly there was an incoming message saying greetings with the alay typing. I replied to the message, until finally he said “My name is Indyka Giran, I ordered my friend yesterday to ask for your number”. Turns out he was just an errand to ask for my number. Hufft.. The truth is that the one who asked for my number and wanted to be close to me was a friend, not someone who asked for my number right away. Every day I pass, I get closer and chat intensely with Indyka, after two weeks we are close, we decide to date, we have never met, just chat normally ordered. Long story short, the National Examination was near and we agreed to end our relationship which only lasted about 2 months. We continued our education at a different junior high school. He continued his education at SMPN 4 Purwakarta, while I was at MTsN 1 Purwakarta. The last time I heard news about him was when he was in grade 2 junior high school, he moved to Surabaya to follow his father who worked there, and until now I haven't heard any news about him, even though I don't know about his social media.

After I sat in junior high school I started to adapt to the environment and make new friends. I sat with my elementary school friend named Siti Rosida. I spend day after day with great enthusiasm with new friends, new schools and new hopes, of course. When recess came, my friends and I always rushed to the canteen together, and at that moment I saw someone whose face was familiar in my memory, "Who the feeling is that I've met and seen where that is" in my mind. After I remember, remember again. Ohiyaaa.. he's someone who first asked for my phone number. Turns out we went to the same school. I didn't have time to meet and greet him, even his name I don't know, that day I just let it go.

Long story short, he approached me and it turned out that our class was next door, I was in class 7E and he was in class 7D. He began to introduce himself, it turned out that his name was Farhan Hadi Wijaya, a man I met at an elementary school in Purwakarta in 2012. Farhan often comes to my class, he likes to take us to the canteen together and go home together. We exchanged numbers and in the end we are close and have a relationship until now. It's been a very long journey to be in a relationship until now, we graduated from LDR Vocational School, he was in Purwakarta and I wandered since graduating from high school to Cikarang. We have spent many days together, we have grown up and developed together. We already know our respective characters. And this year he is trying to propose to me. Hopefully his good intentions will be facilitated and expedited to reach the blessing of Allah SWT. Amen.